August 28, 2016 "Empty Seats"

Often times on a Sunday morning I will look around the worship area and see all the empty seats that are just crying out for someone to worship with us, and I admit, my heart drops a bit. I see in my mind all the people who would be blessed by worshiping with us. I can almost hear their voices added to ours in singing the hymns, proclaiming our faith and reading the Psalms. I just know their lives (and ours) would be enriched if they would only worship with us. I then look around the worship space and imagine all the different circles of people that we know and I am certain that if half of them would come, we would have standing room only. And as excited as I am about the people who are faithful each week, I am also somewhat saddened by those persons who are NOT worshiping with us.

Then I remember a sign that I saw on the wall of the hallway leading to the locker rooms in a gymnasium. It simply says, “Don't be upset by the results you didn't get from the work you didn't do.” And while it is clearly intended to motivate young athletes to practice and work out, I believe this message is for the Church also. As I look at the empty seats in the worship space, I must ask myself, “Who did you invite to worship this week?” The sign in the gym challenges me, “Don’t be upset by the seats that aren’t occupied by the people you didn’t invite.” If I am to be upset by anything, it should be at my own apathy in not inviting specific people to come experience Christ in worship with me. The days of “If you build it, he (or she) will come,” are over. A million different things compete for our attention … even on Sunday mornings. Yet research continues to tell us that most people without a worship home would visit church if only someone would invite them.

So who would you like to see in worship? Who hasn’t been to worship in a while? Who has struggles in their lives and needs the grace, love and hope that Jesus Christ offers. “Don’t be upset by the seats that aren’t occupied by the people you didn’t invite.”

August 21, 2016 "What is a blessing?"

Blessing. What is a blessing? Typically we ask a blessing on our meal before we eat. But were you aware of the fact that there are sixteen blessings for persons contained within The United Methodist Book Of Worship? And this doesn’t include benedictions or blessings that are a part of other services such as a wedding. There are also complete liturgies for blessing of animals and blessing of a home.

It seems that many of us have lost the concept of blessing, even though the scriptures and our Christian heritage is rich with blessing. Beginning in the first chapter of Genesis, the first book of the Bible, we find that God blessed “the great sea monsters and every living creature that moves, of every kind, with which the waters swarm, and every winged bird of every kind.” Did I mention that this was on the fifth day and that people weren’t created until the sixth day? Blessing is older that humanity! Throughout the Bible we find blessings and persons asking for God’s blessing from Noah through Jesus Christ himself. My favorite benediction is a variation of what is known as the “Aaronic Blessing,” “The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace.” (Numbers 6:24-26 NRSV)

I have stopped telling people to have a blessed day. It occurred to me that we have no control over whether our day is blessed or not. So if I tell you to have a blessed day, you can hope for blessing and strive toward it, but ultimately, whether your day is blessed is not for you to decide. Rather when I bid you farewell, I will much more frequently tell you, “Now go and be a blessing to someone!” This is almost always achievable. And oddly, when we are a blessing to someone else, we often find our day blessed.

And today as we ask God’s blessing upon our students, teachers, administrators, we reclaim this concept of blessing. We don’t grant the goodness and favor ourselves. Rather we ask Holy God, the giver of all good things, to impart divine protection, guidance, wisdom and favor upon them.

So may Holy God help our students  to grasp hold of what they need to know and learn. May the Lord give them the aptitude for understanding and wisdom. May they become well versed in every branch of learning, gifted with knowledge and good sense, and be quick to understand. May they realize and understand that they can do all things through Christ who strengthens them. May they dwell in the secret place of the Most High and abide under the shadow of the Almighty. May the Lord always be their refuge and  their fortress. May they always trust in the Lord, their God. May no evil shall befall them, neither shall any plague come near their dwelling. May God grant angels charge over them to keep them in all their ways. May God bless them with long life, satisfy them and show them God’s salvation![1] And may they be a blessing to someone.

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[1] Adapted from “10 Back-to-School Prayers for Your Kids” Today's Frugal Mom™., 01 Aug. 2014. Web. 17 Aug. 2016.

August 14, 2016 "Worship Leaders"

When we think of worship leaders, we often think of musicians, the Pastor and other people who do things at the front of the worship space. How often do we think of greeters and ushers as worship leaders? Most studies agree that a visitor to worship will decide within 10 minutes of arriving whether or not they will return. Notice that this is not within the first 10 minutes of the sermon or even the first 10 minutes of worship, but the first 10 minutes after arriving in the parking lot!

Assuming that this is true, most visitors have decided before the first word of the sermon is uttered, sometimes before worship even starts. The image that visitors get of the church begins before they even leave their car. Is the building well maintained? Is it accessible? How do other worshipers look? Are they excited or do they look like they just want to get this over? As people go in the door, is there someone to welcome them? Does someone point out where the restrooms are, where the nursery is? Do people invite them to sit with them and talk with them? All these things happen or not before the very first note of the prelude is struck on the piano.

So while music and the sermon are important parts of worship, your part is the most important. Do we arrive on Sunday mornings expecting to have an encounter with God or are we just going through the motions? For those of us who have the gift of hospitality, do we talk only with our friends, or do we seek out those persons whom we may not know, even if they are long time members? For those of us who are more introverted, do we at least meet the people sitting by us in worship and get to know them by name? Do we wear our nametags so that people who may not know our names (e.g. Pastor Brad) can get to know us?

We are not all called to be musicians or give the children’s message or preach a sermon. We are all called to meet with our risen Lord and Savior on a daily basis. Hebrews 10:25 tells us, “Don't stop meeting together with other believers, which some people have gotten into the habit of doing. Instead, encourage each other, especially as you see the day drawing near.” So look around at the worshipers around you. What can you do to encourage them? How can they encourage you? Face it, you are a worship leader!

August 7, 2016 "The 'Liturgical' Year"

When I took my first appointment at FUMC Rogers, the back of the bulletin was blank. Taking this opportunity to share more with the congregation, I began to write a short article for the back of the bulletin. I have continued this with each appointment. Beginning this week, I plan to reprise Brad’s Back Of The Bulletin. Sometimes this space will share thoughts related to the Sunday Sermon. Other times I will share information about special dates in the Christian calendar or church traditions or thoughts about what is going on in the world.

One of the things that many people notice in our 10:45 Traditional Worship is that the banners, the drapes on the pulpit and lectern, the runner on the communion table and even the stole that Pastor Brad wears keep changing colors. Just like we have a school calendar that begins in August, we have a church calendar that begins in late November or early December. We mark each change of seasons in the church calendar with a change in the color of these items called “paraments”. Each color has a meaning and generally matches a season of the church calendar or “liturgical calendar”.

The church year starts with the first Sunday of Advent, four weeks before Christmas. The color of Advent is purple. So all the “paraments” change color to purple on the first Sunday of Advent along with our bringing out all the Christmas decorations. The next season of the year is “Christmastide” which begins on Christmas Eve and lasts for 12 days (i.e.”The Twelve Days Of Christmas”). The color of Christmas is white. The 13^th day after Christmas is known as Epiphany which celebrated the visit of the Magi to the house where the Christ child was. The color for Epiphany is white. The following Sunday marks the beginning of “Ordinary Time” also known as the season after Epiphany. There is an additional season of  Ordinary Time that follows Easter. In this context, “ordinary” doesn’t mean “plain or undistinguished” but instead means “ordinal” or counted. Ordinary time is a countdown period before Lent and Advent. The color for both of these “Ordinary Time” seasons is green. The first ordinary time is followed by Lent, a time of preparation leading up to Easter. Lent begins on Ash Wednesday and continues until Palm Sunday. The color of Lent is Purple. Holy Week follows Lent and ends with Easter Sunday. The color for Easter Sunday is white. The Easter Season lasts for 40 days until Pentecost Sunday. The color of Pentecost Sunday is Red. The Sunday following Pentecost is known as “Trinity Sunday” and is marked by the color white. The season following Trinity Sunday is again a time of ordinal Sundays or Ordinary time. This period goes until we start a new year with the next Advent Season.

So each Sunday remember to look at the colors of the “paraments” for a reminder of the church season. And when you see something that makes you curious, remember to ask. It might just appear on the back of the bulletin.